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How
does your body feel to you these days?
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How do you
feel when being ridden? How does the
saddle/bit/harness feel?
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What can we
do to improve our rider-horse relationship together?
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When you
trot, canter, gallop, jump, run, etc. how does you
body feel?
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Are there
any problems I should know about or watch out for?
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How do you
feel when I have to do "this or that" (clipping
nails, brushing, etc.) to you?
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Is there
something I can do to make "this or that" easier or
more enjoyable for you?
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Sometimes I
have to... and it would greatly help me if you
would...
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I know
you're aging. Is there something I can do to support
you in your body changes?
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How do you
feel about your place in the family? Are you
fully content and satisfied?
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Is there
something you wish we would do more of that you
enjoy?
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How do you
feel about the other animal family members in the
house? About me?
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What do you
feel your "job" or "role" is in the house?
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What wisdom
do you have or understand that you want to share
with me?
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Is there
some idea or topic you wish I understood more about?
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What do you
spend time thinking about?
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Do you have
any advice for me or in regards to...
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What is
your viewpoint about humans? Me? Yourself?
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Do you get
bored and if so, what can I do to help change that?
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Is there
something missing in your environment that you wish
you had?
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What do you
like best about being a dog.. cat... horse...
rabbit...mouse...bird...fish... etc.
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What don't
I understand about you? What don't you
understand about me?
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What can
you teach me?
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Why do
you/don't you want to sit on my lap or be picked up?
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What causes
you to do such and such?
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Do you know
what your life's purpose is?
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What do you
find most emotionally satisfying?
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What can I
do for you emotionally that I'm not already doing?
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Is there
something you've been wanting to tell me about
yourself that I've not known?
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What do you
dream about when you sleep?
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Is there
something you wish I'd do less of because you
dislike it?
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Is there
some signal you can give me when you want me to
notice you?
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Do you have
any relationship complaints you'd like to tell me
about?
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What can I
do to make our relationship stronger or deeper than
it already is?
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Is your
environment satisfying all your emotional needs?
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Is there
anything in your physical environment you wish you
could change?
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Is there
something I can do for you to ease your fear over
loud noises, thunder, etc.
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Is you
cage/stall/pen/litter box clean enough for you?
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Is your
litter box big enough and in a comfortable enough
spot for you?
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Is your
living area physically comfortable and roomy enough
for you?
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Do you want
or need more time outside of your cage/pen to
stretch your legs?
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Do you have
a big enough cage/aquarium/yard to live in?
Are you satisfied with it?
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What do you
wish I could do to make your living environment more
pleasing/exciting?
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Do you want
more human interaction or are you content living in
the flock, herd and are doing alright as things
currently are?
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Is you
scratching post to your liking? How do you
feel about scratching items?
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Do you wish
you had more chew toys? Want a certain type of
toy?
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Do you need
more outside physical play/mental stimulus?
Any suggestions?
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Do you
want/need more walks?
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Why are you
soiling the house?
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Is there
something emotional or physical about the
environment/relationship that's upsetting you?
How can we make it better?
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Do you need
to go outside at night and wish I would get up and
let you out?
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Are you
getting enough fresh air and pasture time?
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What do you
wish I would do when "such and such" happens?
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What can I
do to make "such and such" more comfortable for you?
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Do you have
any recommendations for me when I
saddle/walk/jump/train you?
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How do you
feel about loading/unloading and being on the
trailer?
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How can I
make stressful times better for you?
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Is there
anything I can do to make your transport/kenneling
more comfortable for you?
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How do you
feel about being fenced in/lunged/cage rested, etc?
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How do you
feel about being kept in the barn at night? Sharing
space with so and so?
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Are you
warm or cold enough outside? Need a blanket?
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How do you
feel about being groomed/clipped?
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What can I
do to making bathing more pleasant for you?
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What things
do you wish I would tell you about before they
happen?
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Do you feel
safe in your environment? Do you ever feel
unsafe?
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What can we
do about these things you do not like to make it go
easier for you?